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The hall is booked, the flowers chosen, the color scheme is just right; the bridesmaid’s outfits are finally settled.
The best man’s speech is suitably edited, the seating has been minutely scrutinized and finally agreed and the ring is safely stowed. The great day, the most perfect day is set – the envy of her peers, the admiration of her friends.
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How much attention I wonder has been paid to the longer lasting issues of children and the manner of their rearing; how conflict will be handled; how the aspirations of each will be nurtured and supported; personal space and the place of mothers-in-law.
Sadly, many couples fall into the trap of being in love with the ‘idea of being married’. Consequently the wedding becomes the goal and the lifetime together that follows is relegated to fate.
The reason the wedding went off with very little hassle – what wedding is worthy of note unless some ‘disaster’ crops up – is the simple fact that almost every eventuality was planned in minute detail.
Foreseeable, the reason that divorce statistics are so high is that little or no planning went into the LIFE together afterwards. |
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My name is Erwin Gerber and together with my wife Desiree, we head Footsteps Wedding Services. I am an ordained Pastor and fully licensed marriage officer with 7 years of experience.
We form part of a team of Non-Denominational Marriage Officiates networking together throughout South Africa, to provide to you - the bride and groom, a service to help make your special day, unforgettable.
Services are conducted in English and/or Afrikaans
We Conduct:-
Denominational,
Non Denominational,
Inter-Denominational,
Civil or Common Law Marriages
Only Heterosexual Couples!!
So if you want that special ceremony come and talk to me. We have a variety of vows that you can choose from or you can write your own. Included is the registration of your marriage at Home Affairs and the issuing of your Marriage Certificate on the day of the wedding.
WILLING TO TRAVEL TO ANY DESTINATION IN SOUTH AFRICA!!
Team Members are mainly based in Pretoria & Kempton Park, with other members & contacts all over South Africa. We are more than willing to travel.
For more info please contact us directly:
www.footstepsweddings.co.za or Click to Email
Tel: 073 358 3935
Fax: 086 689 4333 |